“Me, too,” I said. “My friend and I are blending. We’re gonna’ be like the Golden Girls.”
I didn’t need any of the items in his yard but noticed the painting — mountain aspens with a turquoise background.
Deb would like that, and her birthday’s coming. But does she want another piece of art?
I talked myself out of it and started to drive home. But the Divine Whisper wouldn’t leave me alone. “Go back. You need that painting.”
“It’s probably too expensive,” I argued. But it’s hard to argue against the Divine One. “Okay. At least I can ask about it.” So I turned around and drove back.
The tag on the back noted the original price — $140. But the owner didn’t want it, so we settled on the price — five bucks.
Deb was delighted as we hung it on her wall. It seemed to give off a special aura, a reminder of our mountain travels and the Rockies she loved.
“I hope you got one of your special bargains for this,” she said. “It’s lovely.”
“Yep, I did.” But I never told her how little I paid.
A birthday hug and our usual celebration meal — Mexican with extra guac and chips.
We didn’t know the blended house would never happen, that this was the last time we would party on her special day. A couple of weeks later, she was suddenly struck with hemolytic anemia.
Our goodbye happened in the ICU. “See ya’ later, friend,” I whispered to her closed eyes. “I love you.” An hour later and she was gone.
Then the funeral with the many friends and family who came to honor her life. All of us in shock. Too young. Not fair. The tentacles of grief grabbing our hearts.
Her children graciously gifted me with the painting. I hung it, amazed by how it accented my creamy yellow wall.
A remembered whisper, “You need that painting.”
True. I needed to give it to Deb for her last birthday, if only for a few weeks’ enjoyment. I need it now to remember her with a smile and treasure our times together.
We all need the reminder to underscore how quickly life can change and how we need to celebrate each other — often and with joy.
Happy birthday, Deb, in heaven.
The painting cost five bucks, but you were worth much more — so much more.
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Hope Shines is dedicated to the memory of Debby Mosher, who lived her life with shining hope.