Requiem for a Sparrow

It lay on my driveway. A tiny bundle of brown feathers. Still. So still as I approached. A sparrow. Not a baby that might have fallen from the nest. This was an adult. Did she fly into my window and break her neck? None of the feral cats seemed to care. Their bellies already filled by the neighbors on my animal loving cul-de-sac.

Yet here was a tiny life, snuffed out and still. So still.

The word ‘requiem’ comes from the Latin and means “to grant eternal rest.” How could I give this tiny creature a bit of eternal rest? By making sure no other creature or car tires mutilated the body. By respecting its life, even the life of a tiny brown bird.

I grabbed my gardening gloves and spade, then dug a grave in my flower bed. Carefully picked up the fallen sparrow and laid her in the hole. Covered her up with soil. Dust to dust. In the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. I marked the grave with several stones so that I would not dig her up by planting a new flower in the future.

Then I wept. Why? Does it seem strange to mourn for a plain brown bird, the species that few bird watchers long to find? Yet this small creature was a living reminder that even the God of the universe cares for the smallest of lives. That God knows when each sparrow falls. The watch care of God — not only for us but also for each creature he has fashioned.

“Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies? Yet not one of them is forgotten by God . . . Don’t be afraid. You are worth more than many sparrows.” (Luke 12:6-7 NIV).

My tears continued as I replayed the events of my last two weeks:

• My neighbor suffered a massive stroke. He died. Age 57.
• A young woman who once sat in our high school Sunday school class. Now a mother but also now a statistic of what cancer does. How it does not respect the young. She was 47.
• My daughter-in-love grieving the passing of her mother — so near to Mother’s Day. The family matriarch now gone. My DIL now feeling like an orphan.
• The children of Ukraine, Gaza, Israel, and Iran. 200 young girls sitting in their school room, slaughtered by an American missile. “Collateral damage” say the purveyors of war. “Beloved” say their parents.
• This close to Mother’s Day and thinking of my mom. Wearing her jewelry so that she is not forgotten.

Too much death. And now a sparrow. I wept for the enormity of what scripture calls the last enemy to be destroyed.

Jesus conquered death by walking out of his tomb. His friends and family only had to grieve for three days. Not so with us. A life-altering change accompanies death. And yes — we look forward to and believe in the afterlife. The glorious reunion with friends and family. Seeing Jesus face to face.

Still, death seems to win on this fragile earth.

All we can do is weep with those who weep, comfort the grieving, and determine that we will live each day with hope.

That someday, death will be powerless. No more graves. No more funerals. And no more fallen sparrows.

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A death in his youth group caused a major spiritual shift for Pastor Tanner. Read his story in The Year of my Redemption.