The lady ahead of me wheeled a 180 with her cart and hurried toward Aisle 10. Other shoppers joined her in line. Thankfully, everyone grabbed only one package and no one turned violent.
In spite of my determination to not give in to the panic, I thought What the heck? We can always use more TP. It’s never going to rot.
So I joined the other shoppers and bought one more package of this daily necessity, then stored it in our basement for just-in-case.
Growing up on the farm, we always stocked extra supplies. We spent summer days canning veggies and fruits, wiping sweat off our faces in the not-air-conditioned kitchen, watching Mom mentor the pressure cooker.
The freezer was filled with meat before winter, and the pantry stocked with extra cereals and canned goods. An Oklahoma blizzard or an electrical outage could always surprise us, so we were prepared.
Plus, my parents lived through the Great Depression and the rationings of World War Two. They wanted to make sure their children were never hungry.
So I grew up with the mentality of saving, preserving and preparing for a possible crisis. But I never imagined long lines desperate for toilet paper.
On the other hand, what options do we have if we run out of the stuff? Kleenex or paper towels would clog up sewer systems. Sears catalogues no longer exist, and we don’t use outdoor facilities anymore. Not enough greenery in the yard for an organic option.
Maybe we need to stock up on TP because it represents something tangible we can do to fight our fears. It’s a visual reminder of the one thing we CAN control.
If we are quarantined, at least we can wipe.
I will admit some anxiety about this Coronavirus, probably because I’m in the demographic of greatest risk. And my mother lives in a facility similar to the one in Washington state that counted so many of the initial deaths.
But fear leads us to impulsive actions. It keeps us from a focus on hope and destroys the peaceful sleep we all need.
I believe the current panic is a crowd response, but also a result of miscommunication and lack of credible information. Once again — as in September of 2001 — we were not prepared.
The good news is that the virus has proven to have a shelf life. China no longer needs its specialty hospitals built to house Coronavirus patients.
We’re all doing what we can to increase personal hygiene and stay away from crowds. Some of those social distancing rules have been decided for us.
Although unfortunately, more people WILL die, this nasty thing will eventually leave us — hopefully a bit wiser and more prepared for the next crisis.
So I’m choosing to focus on the positives:
- School closings mean more family time
- Neighbors helping each other, staying alert for those who need assistance and building community
- Basic human kindness is underscored as our motivation
- A peaceful response by even one person can cancel some of the panic
- Government agencies will learn more of what to do next time
- All of us should spend more time in the sun and open windows for fresh air
At the very least — we’re all prepared with plenty of TP for the rest of 2020.
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