For over twenty years, we have met together – usually monthly – to eat lunch, talk about our families and prayer requests, to do life together.
We have watched our children grow up, shared the joys of weddings and the sorrow of funerals. Phone calls, emails and texts help us stay connected, but it is our monthly meetings that feed my soul.
As I have considered my next book, I wondered if it was time to write about the Saturday Sisters. Somehow, that book isn’t coming together – yet – so I asked each of these precious ones if I could describe them in a blog post.
With their permission, I decided to go deep and talk about how each of these Sisters has added to my life.
During the aging process, we begin to think about legacies and what we will leave behind. We de-clutter the stuff, knowing it is no longer important. But it is the people we cannot forget, cannot shove into the Goodwill bin. These are the treasured ones who have added to our living and shown us how to be.
This blog post begins my thank you to the Saturday Sisters for how they have enriched my life.
Janet: The Encourager. She has a special way of turning a dark day into a beam of light. With her witty humor and her pithy statements, she has often given me hope when everything seemed desperate.
She calls once / week to check up on me from her sunroom office where her title is inscribed near her chair: CEO – Chief Encouragement Officer.
Her voice holds warmth and often – a suppressed giggle – reminding me how joy lies just below the surface. We just have to shove away the despair to find it.
Janet encourages me in my writing and in my living. She and her husband, Steve, have supported my various ministries and they are patrons for my writing life.
She is also a prolific reader. She finds the most amazing books I have never heard of. Then she shares them with the group and often sends each of us a copy.
One of those books provides morning and evening meditations for me. “A Diary of Private Prayer” by John Baillee has challenged me while reminding me once again how Janet encourages me to grow.
It is Janet’s lovely house where we meet, because it is totally accessible for her wheelchair. This Encourager lives with MS and its side effects, facing her own dark days yet somehow never letting them destroy her faith.
I am consistently amazed by Janet’s courage, and I love her intensely for who she is.
Janet’s husband, Steve, is our associate member. He helps Janet get the house ready, picks treasures from his garden to share with us and gives amazingly strong, beautiful hugs. Steve is one of those rare men who is trustworthy, kind and smart.
He and Janet have merged their personalities into a grace-filled pairing of what marriage should be.
It is Janet who organizes our monthly meetings, who leads us in our discussions and keeps us on track. She is the energizing force behind the Saturday Sisters, and I truly don’t know how she does it so well.
Except that she is gifted as an Encourager.
She knows who she is and how to set healthy boundaries. As a former lawyer, a devoted wife, mother and grandmother – Janet is the Sister who keeps me steadfastly searching for Hope.
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Everyone needs a Janet in their life! What a BLESSING!
Indeed! You are so right. Thanks, Deb.
You are indeed blessed with your Saturday Sisters! Sounds like a great title for a book!!
Thanks, Cindy. I think so, too !
You are blessed to have such wonderful friends.
Yes – we have done life together for many years.
Seems hard to improve on CEO for an encourager label. Special post!
Thanks, Jerry. Yes, I love that type of CEO.